Keeping Mummy Yummy

One thing that all mothers will go through is the changing nature of their bodies. One thing all fathers will go through is hearing about these changes and ensuring that their partners stay in the right frame of mind.

Since wifey found out that she was expecting. she has steadily put on weight within the healthy weight range. Regardless of this, I constantly hear about how my wife is feeling fat and frumpy. This is not to say that she doesn't feel those things, however I, being the caring husband, have communicated with her on almost a daily basis that although she may feel this way, she shouldn't feel negatively about it - she is pregnant after all. If my wife had put on 8 kilos in such a short space of time and wasn't pregnant, then I'd be worried.

Despite the reassurance from me, it takes a while for the message to get through and despite acknowledging the fact that she is pregnant and is going to gain weight, she still complains about being uncomfortable.

I think that such a sudden change would have me feeling pretty concerned as well. Getting some exercise, eating healthily (not blaming poor diet choices on eating for 2 as is the common excuse) and ensuring that getting clothes that fit are all the order of the day. Who cares if clothes are two sizes larger than what you normally buy or you are buying maternity gear. At least you'll feel comfortable and not be wearing tight clothes. I remind Kos of this regularly.

Cravings: in these tough financial times we are improving Twisties' turnover and enjoying alot of carbs!

Keeping mummy yummy is not just about making sure mum stays healthy, but also maintaining positive self-esteem and staying in the right frame of mind. I on the other hand need to keep my food baby under control. I often eat for three!